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BULLIES BEWARE!
Dr. Reed Predicts Bullying Law Will Pass, Says
Parents, Students Can Take Action Now
FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE:
Thursday, March 17, 2005
CONTACTS:
Marc Steczyk 317-232-6615
Scott Minier 317-232-6671
Dr. Suellen Reed, Superintendent
of Public Instruction, predicts this year’s legislature
will likely pass a new law targeting bullying but says there
are things parents and students can do now to curb such behavior.
“Bullying may seem insignificant and is often dismissed
as part of growing up,” Reed said. “But it’s
actually an early form of aggressive, violent behavior. One
particular study has shown that, of students identified as bullies
in junior high, 60 percent will have committed one crime by the
age of 24 and 40 percent of those will have committed at least
two.”
Reed also warns that bullies often
cause serious problems that schools, families, and neighbors
ignore. Teasing at bus stops, taking another child’s lunch money, insults and threats,
kicking and shoving—it’s all fair game to the bully.
About the Victim…
“Fears and anxieties about bullies can cause some children
to avoid school, carry weapons for self-protection or worse—to
injure or kill others or themselves,” Reed says. “Anyone
can be a target of bullying, but they’re often singled out
for psychological or physical traits—shy, sensitive, insecure
or maybe small, having a physical challenge, or belonging to a
different race or religious faith.”
About the Bill…
Senate Bill 285, authored by Sen.
Tom Wyss (R-Ft. Wayne) and part of Reed’s 2005 legislative agenda, requires schools to adopt
rules prohibiting bullying and allows the Department of Education
to train school personnel to better identify and deal with bullying
situations before they escalate into more violence. Governor
Mitch Daniels supports the bill and is expected to sign it into
law.
About the Bully…
Wyss said research shows some
bullies are outgoing and aggressive. They get their way by brute
force or harassment. They reject rules and rebel to feel superior
or secure. Other bullies are reserved and manipulative. They
don’t want
to be recognized as harassers or tormentors. They control through
smooth talking and lying. This type of bully seeks power through
cunning and deception.
As different as these two types may seem, all bullies have some
characteristics in common. They:
- Are concerned with their own pleasure;
- Want power;
- Are willing to use and abuse other people to get what they
want;
- Feel pain inside, perhaps because of their own shortcomings;
and
- Find it difficult to see things
from someone else’s
perspective.
What Parents, Students Can Do…
- Listen. Encourage students to talk about school,
social events, other kids in class, walk or ride with them to
and from school, so problems can be identified.
- Take complaints
about bullying seriously. Probing a seemingly minor complaint
may uncover more severe grievances. Youth are often afraid
or ashamed to tell that they have been bullied, so listen to
complaints.
- Watch for symptoms. Bully victims may become withdrawn,
drop in grades, have torn clothes or need extra money or supplies.
- Tell
school officials immediately. Alerted caregivers can more carefully
monitor students’ actions
and take steps to insure safety.
- Work with other parents. Ensure
that neighborhood youth are supervised closely on their way
to and from as well as after school.
For more information on SB 285, log onto www.doe.in.gov/legwatch/ or
phone Reed’s legislative liaison office at 317-232-6671.
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